I returned home late on Mother’s Day, having worked long hours. I was eager to give Savannah the designer purse I had bought as a gift, hoping it would make up for my absence. However, when I arrived, Savannah looked exhausted and said she just wanted some alone time. Her words struck me hard. I had been working non-stop and wanted to make things right, but I could see how much she needed rest.
On Father’s Day, I took advantage of a lighter workload and got home early, expecting some relaxation. Savannah greeted me warmly but then suggested activities with the kids. I asked for some time to work on my truck, but she insisted I spend the day with the kids, citing that I hadn’t given her a break on Mother’s Day.
Two kids arguing | Source: Freepik
Her decision felt unfair. I had hoped for a restful day and was frustrated by the chaos of managing the kids while Savannah took a much-needed break. By the end of the day, after a tiring time with the kids, Savannah’s words from earlier echoed in my mind. She had always been alone with the kids on special days because of my work schedule, and I had never truly understood how hard that was for her.
I wondered if I was a bad husband for feeling upset. Savannah had a valid point about needing help and the difficulties of managing everything alone on special days. While I felt my frustration was justified, I realized her sacrifice was significant. I wanted to feel justified in my frustration, but her reasoning was clear.
Am I wrong for being upset about the Father’s Day gift?